How do I know coaches empower change? Because I experienced it first-hand. I spent 26 years in Corporate America. Like many of you, I was grinding away and seeking that next role or promotion. Ultimately, I found myself squeezing in personal and family obligations at all hours and costs. And, I was feeling guilty that it was never enough.
It took the support of an amazing professional coach to help me realize that I can change. I knew that I had to change for the sake of myself and my family. I realized that pursuing my dream of a balanced and happy life was worth the risk of not only leaving the comfort of what I had always known but also changing my professional identity. Finally, I learned that I had enough and that I was enough. I realized that I could be happy, fulfilled, and financially independent doing what I LOVE to do…and that is helping OTHERS pursue their passions.
Who Needs a Coach?
Ever met a sports team without a coach? Me neither. Life is a team sport, but we seem to be out there in some kind of “every person for themselves” type of environment. It’s madness. People need people. Each of us needs support and the dedicated time to reflect, to dream, to grow, and to change. Today, multi-tasking is not only expected but rewarded and unfortunately this necessary time and space for reflection does not occur naturally. You need to prioritize and not compromise that time. That is where a coach comes in – coaches empower change.
The value of having a professional coach is similar regardless of whether you are a leader looking to advance to an executive role, an employee looking to make a career move, or an individual working toward a change of any kind. Individuals who receive coaching find greater fulfillment for themselves and are of greater value to their organizations as well. Coaches empower change.
Role of a Coach
Coaches empower change and create an opportunity to engage in focused conversations that enable and support key development areas. A coach creates space for the “coachee” to be introspective and contemplative. Great coaches ask great questions and listen intently to what is being said (and how it is being said) as well as what is not being said. A coach does not provide the coachee with the answer. Rather, they create an environment in which the coachee creates their answers. That way, the answers are grounded in the values of the coachee and ultimately connect what an individual truly wants with what they are willing to risk to get it.
With the support of a coach, the coachee explores obstacles, builds a plan, is held accountable, and is enabled to make the change they wish to make. The coach is there to listen, inquire, and challenge existing mental frameworks. They encourage new thinking and possibilities. And they stimulate the coachee’s imagination and empower and validate the coachee. Together, the coach and coachee focus on self-discovery, goal setting, and taking action. The best coach/coachee relationships are grounded in trust, accountability, and vulnerability. Two of the most impactful types of coaching are Career Coaching and Leadership Coaching.
Career and Leadership Coaching
Career coaching provides numerous benefits to individuals at various stages of their professional journey. Coaches help the coachee figure out what they truly want to do and understand what is preventing them from achieving it. They help the coachee endure the ups and downs of pursuing their career goals. Career coaching is an investment in both personal and professional growth.
Leadership coaching can greatly benefit leaders and their organizations. Today, leaders must be better equipped to address real anxieties in the workplace. Leadership is no longer just about managing and guiding the work, setting the strategy, executing, measuring, and optimizing. Importantly, leadership responsibilities are far greater in the current environment where individuals need personal and professional support to truly grow. They do this by being empowered and allowed to learn from their mistakes. Therefore, the leader’s capacity and skillset must also shift to support this new way of working. As a result, companies are moving toward a coaching model where leaders are trained to facilitate problem-solving through asking questions and offering support vs giving orders and making judgments. Leadership coaching can make a good leader exceptional—as long as the leader is willing to put in the effort needed. Coaches empower change.
Coaches Empower Change – What are you waiting for?
Don’t spend months, years, or even decades ‘squeezing in’ the people and opportunities that are most important to who you are and who you want to become. Don’t let fear win. Explore, dream, and write the next chapter of life that will bring you the happiness and fulfillment you want and deserve. What are you waiting for? Let’s chat! We may be able to help you get out of your way and reach your full potential.
