Getting out of your own way on your path to success can be challenging. Change is thrilling, but let’s be honest—it’s messy too. Whether you’re aiming to reinvent your career, lead a transformation, or simply break an unproductive habit, the biggest obstacle often isn’t external. It’s you. Or rather, the internal dialogue, assumptions, and behaviors that quietly sabotage progress. Getting out of your own way isn’t about hustle—it’s about clarity, commitment, and courage.
Here’s how to shift gears and drive change more effectively:
🔍 Recognize Your Resistance
Before you can shift, you have to spot the friction. Are you procrastinating? Overanalyzing? Seeking perfection? These aren’t character flaws—they’re often protective strategies your brain uses to avoid discomfort. Name them. When you label resistance (e.g., “I’m delaying because I fear rejection”), you disarm its power.
🧩 Refocus on Your Why
Change without meaning feels like a chore. Reconnect with your purpose—what impact will this change make? How will it shape the life, team, or organization you envision? Anchor into a meaningful “why” that’s so compelling it trumps the discomfort of the unknown. Let it be the compass that guides every decision.
🚪 Simplify Your Strategy
A bloated plan can paralyze action. Instead, choose one action that nudges you forward—make the call, write the email, say yes. When you do this consistently, momentum builds, and the path becomes clearer. Complexity is often a sophisticated form of avoidance. Instead, ask: “What’s the simplest next move I can make today?”
🗣️ Challenge Your Narrative
We’re natural storytellers—and sometimes, that story is “I’m not ready,” “I need more time,” or “What if I fail?” If your mental monologue reinforces doubt more than possibility, reframe it. Shift from “What if this goes wrong?” to “What if this works?” The story you tell yourself influences the outcomes you chase.
👥 Engage Trusted Voices
You don’t have to do this solo. Invite feedback from mentors, coaches, or trusted peers. Sometimes, an outside perspective can spot a blind spot or re-energize your confidence. The right conversation at the right time can dissolve hesitation and fuel courage.
🌱 Embrace Discomfort as Growth
Growth rarely feels graceful in the moment—it’s awkward, emotional, and often uncertain. But that discomfort is fertile ground. Instead of resisting it, learn to sit with it. Ask yourself, “What is this discomfort trying to teach me?” That’s often where breakthroughs are born.
🚀 Get Out of Your Own Way
Getting out of your own way isn’t a one-time act—it’s a continuous practice of awareness, intention, and humility. Real change starts when you stop trying to be perfect and start showing up—even if imperfectly. That’s where possibility lives. Reach out if you want to talk more about strategies you can use to break through and make the change you are seeking.
