Coaches help leaders become better leaders. Leadership is often perceived as a mystical quality, a rare trait that only a select few possess. However, the truth is that leadership is a skill that can be developed and nurtured in anyone. It’s about more than just leading a team or managing a project; it’s about inspiring, influencing, and empowering those around you.

Servant Leadership

Ever hear of “Servant Leadership”? “Servant Leadership is a leadership style that prioritizes the growth, well-being, and empowerment of employees.  It aims to foster an inclusive environment that enables everyone in the organization to thrive as their authentic self.” Sounds refreshing, doesn’t it?  Sounds like someone you may want to work for?  Or someone you may even want to become?  The truth is most leaders wouldn’t exist if there was no team behind (or better yet, in front of) them.  Becoming a leader that gets things done because of who you are and how you show up to serve others is more effective in the long run than a leader that drives their team through fear or compliance.  Ever work for someone like that?  Yup, me, too.  And it’s no fun.

Here are some essential steps to help you unlock your leadership potential and become that servant leader that your team members want to be around.

Self-Awareness: The Foundation of Leadership

The journey to becoming an effective leader begins with self-awareness. Understanding your strengths, weaknesses, values, and motivations allows you to lead authentically and with conviction. Self-reflection is key—take time to assess your experiences, seek feedback from others, and be open to change. Coaches can help give you that dedicated time to reflect and process.  Embrace your unique qualities and use them to your advantage.

Develop Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to recognize and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others – it’s not about how YOU feel, it’s about how you make OTHERS feel. High EI enables you to build strong relationships, resolve conflicts, and create a positive work environment. Practice empathy, active listening, and adaptability. Remember, a leader who understands and connects with their team on an emotional level is more likely to inspire loyalty and trust.

Cultivate a Growth Mindset

Adopting a growth mindset is crucial for personal and professional development. Embrace challenges, learn from setbacks, and continuously seek opportunities to grow. Mistakes are growth, so make it ok to make them.  Share your mistakes (as well as what you learned from them) with your team. Leaders with a growth mindset are resilient and adaptable, always striving to improve themselves and their teams. Encourage and model a culture of learning and innovation within your organization.

Effective Communication

Communication is at the heart of leadership. Clearly articulating your vision, goals, and expectations is essential for aligning your team and driving success. Practice active listening, provide constructive feedback, and be open to input from others. Remember, effective communication is a two-way street—it’s not just about talking, but also about listening, being curious and seeking to understand without judgment.

Build Strong Relationships

Leadership is not a solo endeavor; it’s about building and nurturing relationships. Invest time in getting to know your team members, their strengths, and their aspirations. Foster a culture of collaboration and mutual respect. By building strong relationships, you create a supportive environment where everyone feels valued and empowered to contribute.

Lead by Example

Actions speak louder than words. As a leader, you set the tone for your team’s behavior and work ethic. Demonstrate integrity, accountability, and dedication in everything you do. By leading by example, you inspire others to follow suit and uphold the same standards.

Psychological Safety

Creating an environment that has trust and safety to have the conversations that need to be had is critical to the success of an organization or team.  If your team is afraid to be honest, look in the mirror.  Why are they fearful?  What are the consequences of being honest with you?  You need your team to tell you what is going on and to do that you need to create a trusting and safe environment.

Empower Others

Great leaders empower others to reach their full potential. Create leaders that can step in when you’re out or that can take over your responsibilities when you move on (or up!).  Delegate responsibilities, provide opportunities for growth, entrust your team with taking calculated risks, and recognize achievements. By empowering your team, you not only enhance their skills and confidence but also create a more motivated and engaged workforce and free yourself up for new opportunities, self-development, or time with your family.

Conclusion

Unlocking your leadership potential is a continuous journey of self-discovery, growth, and learning. It requires dedication, self-awareness, and a commitment to developing yourself. By focusing on emotional intelligence, effective communication, and building strong relationships, you can inspire and influence those around you, ultimately becoming the leader you aspire to be. Remember, leadership is not a destination but a journey—embrace it with passion and purpose.  Want to learn more?  Please reach out!